How to love Mondays

From the day we start school, Monday to Friday represents the daily grind. Early starts. Hard work. Routine. Living for the weekend, waiting for those two precious days with family and friends. Sunday nights bring a familiar feeling of dread and the Monday morning alarm is the low point of the whole week. But it doesn’t have to be this way, what if we were to learn how to love Mondays?

How to love Mondays - starting the day with a swim in the river by a quaint old stone bridge

Start the week with something you love

To learn how to love Mondays, the first step is to do something you enjoy on the first day of every week. If you’re working all day, you may have to fit that beloved activity in either first thing in the morning or in the evening after work. We all need something in our lives that’s just for us.

Personally, I learned to love Mondays when I started open water swimming every Monday morning. But whether you enjoy throwing yourself in a freezing cold river like me, or prefer to play with a train set, go for a run or sit in a sauna, do it on a Monday.

Recognise Monday as a fresh start

I’m writing this on a Saturday after a fairly dire week last week. Work was underwhelming, I didn’t agree any exciting new projects. The children were tired, I was up in the night with them most nights. I was so, so ready for the weekend. I spent Friday afternoon dealing with a screaming six year old and vacuuming potting compost out of the carpet. To top it all off, I broke my favourite mug.

But the fact last week was rubbish doesn’t mean that every week will be rubbish. Monday is a fresh start. I’ll swim in the river, push harder to get exciting work projects on the go and fare better with my to do list. I might even buy a new favourite mug. Because that’s what Mondays are about. My dad always says that tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life. So grab Monday, claim it as your own and make it the start of something fabulous.

Make midweek plans and shift the blame onto Tuesday

The main reason Mondays are rubbish is because they’re so flipping far away from Friday. So, bring Friday closer. You might not be able to book every Wednesday off work, but that doesn’t stop you from having something to look forward to. Whether it’s a regular coffee date with a friend or a sneaky midweek glass of wine, it breaks up the week. So now you so something you love on a Monday and treat yourself on a Wednesday. And suddenly, Tuesday is the enemy instead of Monday.

Do something special at the weekend

There’s nothing worse than getting to Sunday night and thinking you haven’t made the most of the weekend. Whilst most of us have things we need to do on Saturday and Sunday, it’s important to take a break too. Have a day out on one of the days and leave the other to get chores done. Visit a National Trust property, walk on the beach or go out for lunch. Better still, plan a weekend away every now and then. Having a camper van makes this really easy. There’s nothing better than picking the children up from school on a Friday night and heading to the coast until Sunday afternoon.

Camper van with driveaway awning attached and two little girls sitting outside on chairs

Love Mondays by changing what you can’t accept

There is a saying about accepting what you can’t change and changing what you can’t accept. I have always applied this to my career. We all find ourselves in jobs that we hate at some point in our lives. If we can’t change the role itself, it’s time to look for something new.

Years ago, I worked in a career where morale among colleagues was plummeting. We were treated badly, overworked, underpaid and put at unnecessary risk. Everyone hated it. Yet, when I decided to leave, I had the same conversation over and over again with colleagues.

Them: “I hate this job because…”

Me: “I’m leaving next week.”

Them: “What? That’s insane, you must be crazy, what are you thinking? What are you going to do?”

Most of them are still there. Morale continues to plunge and there hasn’t been a moment when I’ve looked back and regretted my decision to leave. I learned how to love Mondays and life will never be the same again.

Learn to love Mondays | Mondays get a bad press. They're the start of the working week, back to the daily grind and the day we all dread. But there are some simple steps you can take to learn to love Mondays and make your whole week more positive. Try it, it's life changing. #mondays #positivity #selfhelp #happiness
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10 Comments

  1. March 11, 2019 / 7:45 am

    I always moan about Mondays but I find it my most productive day. I get so much done with it being the fresh start.
    They’re not the best day of the week but are not as bad as we think x

    • monsterid March 11, 2019 / 8:07 am

      You’re so right, I find them quite productive too when I set my mind to working.
      Nat.x

  2. March 11, 2019 / 10:16 pm

    Love this post Nat, I don’t mind Tuesdays mainly because my working week starts on a Tuesday, although I do feel a little sad that the weekend is over and my little family all have to go our separate ways x

    • monsterid March 11, 2019 / 11:03 pm

      Thank you! Lovely that you enjoy work enough to like Tuesdays when that’s the day you go back to work.
      Nat.x

  3. March 11, 2019 / 10:56 pm

    I love this and will start to look at Monday’s like January 1st-the start of a new text book πŸ™‚

    • monsterid March 11, 2019 / 11:02 pm

      Ahh thank you, I really hope it helps. It definitely made me happier about Mondays when I decided to see them as a fresh start.
      Nat.x

  4. March 12, 2019 / 2:14 pm

    Amen to that! I quite like Mondays. I relish the peace after a busy weekend of rushing around (sadly we don’t ever have the option to take a day off at the weekend and do something nice because of my son’s sport). I always actually feel quite sad for people who spend the whole week looking forward to Friday, because it means they’re wasting a lot of their life feeling miserable.

    • monsterid March 12, 2019 / 2:25 pm

      Gosh yes, it must be a bit of a relief for you after being so busy at the weekend. I always spent my life waiting for Friday but I’m getting on much better with appreciating the weekdays now πŸ™‚
      Nat.x

  5. March 13, 2019 / 9:42 am

    Some weeks it’s not only Mondays I dont like! I’m getting better at arranging ‘me time’ during the week to give me a break from the work routine but sometimes it’s quite hard to stay positive about being stuck in the same four walls for most of the work week. This is when I am thankful that I work for myself and can basically wotk from anywhere that has internet.

    • monsterid March 13, 2019 / 10:20 am

      Yes, I totally get that. I find it really difficult on days when I can’t get out of the house at all. I usually run, walk or swim at some point during the day just to get out and about. Those days when you’re stuck at home all day are definitely the difficult thing about working from home.
      Nat.x

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