Life in two dimensions

A few months ago, a friend of ours who is a doctor mentioned that Libby’s eyes didn’t look like they were focusing properly and that they should have been by then. The main impact of this is that she often looks quite cross-eyed. He recommended that we take her to the GP so that they could refer us to an eye specialist. Since then, we have had a few trips to a couple of hospitals, various eye tests, a few nasty eye drops and some talk of surgery. We settled on her having surgery when she turns two, which is apparently when it is likely to be the most successful. 

Despite having spoken to several opthalmologists, nurses and doctors over the past few months, today was the first time that anyone explained to us that Libby’s sight would be irreparably effected by this problem. It turns out that the surgery will make Libby’s eyes move together, but because she didn’t learn to use both eyes at the same time before the age of three months old, she never will. 

This means that she will never be able to see the world in three dimensions like everyone else. She will never have any depth perception and will struggle to know how far away things are. She is likely to be clumsy and frequently bump into things. They have explained that this is generally unlikely to effect her in every day life, but equally there are some professions that she would not be able to go into because of her eyesight such as a pilot or a surgeon. 

It is strange to imagine not being able to see in three dimensions, I am trying to get my head around the world that she lives in. I suppose it would be a bit like watching the world on a television screen. Everything is flat. I wonder how this will effect her later in life. I am sure that there must be some advantages to living in a two dimensional world. Maybe it will be easier for her to focus on one thing at a time? Or could it will be more difficult? Perhaps she will be good at painting and drawing things because she sees things in two dimensions so it might be easier to put what she sees onto paper? 

Whilst I am slightly disappointed that Libby will never be able to see the world in the same way that I do, I am determined to make the best of the situation for her. I’m off to research what her strengths are likely to be and how I can help her to maximise them. Does anybody else have any experience of this sort of thing and how it will effect her? 

On the way home from the hospital, we dropped in at a shop to buy a new bed for our dogs and picked up a baby-sized chair for Libby’s bedroom. We have recycled a little plastic table that has been sat in our garden for ages and now she’s got an area of her own for colouring and crafts. She hasn’t quite got to grips with what crayons are for yet, but she’s fascinated by the paper! 



  1. Ali McDonough
    March 19, 2013 / 11:53 pm

    Sweet girl 🙂 Best of luck to all of you!

  2. Natalie Ray
    March 20, 2013 / 9:00 pm

    Thank you Ali 🙂

  3. Marianne Hopwood
    March 21, 2013 / 10:18 pm

    Sorry to hear you’ve been going through all that honey. If it’s any consolation, my Dad has been functionally blind in one eye since childhood, and apart from not being able to watch 3D films it has never held him back in the slightest. Because he never knew any different, his vision is normal to him. All the best xxx

  4. Natalie Ray
    March 21, 2013 / 11:10 pm

    Thanks Maz 🙂

  5. Laura McDonald
    April 18, 2013 / 11:32 am

    I never knew this (about the 2D/3D stuff)!! Just goes to show it has been too long since we caught up.xx

  6. Natalie Ray
    April 18, 2013 / 1:43 pm

    You’re right Laura, it’s far too long, we need to sort something out, I bet Maisie has even taught you to skip by now it’s been that long!

  7. January 22, 2016 / 7:30 pm

    I have only just read this because you linked to it from your ballet post. Have you written an update since? Did she have the op? She’s such a gorgeous baby!! I had a squint in one eye as a baby and had corrective surgery at 18 months – nearly 30 years ago. I don’t think it’s noticeable now and it just shows what amazing things doctors can do. I hope that your daughter will one day see in 3D but even if she doesn’t, she will still see the beauty in the world x

    • monsterid January 28, 2016 / 12:45 am

      Thank you Donna, it’s great to hear about your experience. Libby had the operation the week she turned 2. Aesthetically she’s fine now but she’ll never see in 3D. She’s coping well with it, there are certain things that she finds difficult but she makes up for it in other ways so it’s not holding her back.x

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